Right up my ally. This article allows me to ride an emotional rollercoaster with you and have a look into your analysis journey. Usually people just stop at judging.
I think you are right that the curtain means more than an outdated decor to her. It could be self-worth, a token of her achievement, her happy place. It could also mean respect and she may believe that curtain is guests-attracting item 😀 feel attached to things…Indeed, we hold on to something not because of its monetary value but the meaning that we assign to it.
It is important to check on our attachment either it is an outed furniture or an old belief. Thank you for a lovely, insightful read.